Stop Being Needy

Stop Being Needy

Being aware of what you need is not the same as being needy. You may need rest, energy, validation, emotional regulation, spirituality, learning, time alone, time with others. It’s not wrong to want these things but the distinction lies in where you expect those needs...
Handing people back their emotions

Handing people back their emotions

We talk about handling our own emotions. What about other peoples’ emotions? Part of being an empath (or just a human) is that you can’t help being aware of what other people are feeling. It’s probably part of what makes you a great therapist. But sometimes,...
End of Year, Christmas Mehab Message

End of Year, Christmas Mehab Message

This morning, I swam in 6-degree waters, no wetsuit and beamed with joy as I shared a hot tea afterwards with my mate Rach. And I hate the cold! A few months ago, I couldn’t drive more than a few miles without leg pain and cramping. And I couldn’t fix it....

A client asked me recently, “What are the pre-requisites for coaching to work? Are these things that can be taught? And what are the failure stories in coaching?” When I talk to a new client, I am listening for signs that they want to change something in their lives,...
Can you allow yourself to disappoint anyone today?

Can you allow yourself to disappoint anyone today?

It took about 30 seconds for me to think of a whole range of people I could potentially disappoint today. My kids, my husband, my business partner, my friends, my Mum, my clients, the dog! This is really just another version of a question you’ll see posed often by...